Women’s Sexual Fantasies revealed by Google
What women desire according to the data
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What are the deepest sexual desires of women?
A hint could be given by google search queries. In the book “A Billion Wicked Thoughts,” Google software engineers presented their data.
With crazy results, I think.
The famous psychologist Jordan Peterson also talked about this interesting book in one of his lectures I recently watched.
According to Peterson, this book is particularly interesting and authentic because it is written by
engineers rather than social scientists. Therefore, the hard facts are much more in the foreground than concerns regarding the “ethics” of this book.
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What the data tells us
The first interesting finding is that men search for images or videos with pornographic content while women are more likely to search for literary representations of pornographic content.
The most interesting part is probably this: a plot analysis of the typical female pornographic fantasy. The engineers found that one particular type of literary porn depiction is especially popular.
A young and attractive woman meets a man who is dangerous in a way. A bit of a monster if you will. Think beauty and the beast.
5 types of these monsters are especially popular:
- Werewolf
- Vampire
- Pirate
- Billionaire
- Surgeon
Kind of funny. I mean, really?
But when you think about it, it confirms itself. Why are vampire series and movies like Twilight so popular?
Dr. Peterson explains this phenomenon with the female desire for
predatory dominance, aggression, and a high position in the male dominance hierarchy in a man.
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The erotic story continues.
The woman manages
to tame this dangerous aggressive man.
Again: Think of beauty and the beast.
Peterson calls this “the female hero myth”.
What we men can learn from this
It seems that as a man you have to have a dangerous side in order to be attractive.
Or at least be able to be dangerous. Embrace your dangerous side.
Could you defend your family in an emergency?
The taming aspect also shows that you should not be a savage.
Rather a civilized beast.