3) Pondefecator on Your comment is awaiting moderation. October 15th, 2008 10.14 am I wonder whether this concept of ’steady relationship’ has the same interpretation as in ‘going steady’. If that’s the case, has any thought been given to what it entails? Are we not said to be still a conservative people? Isn’t partial commitment considered ‘two timing’ and if we go with this article’s suggestion
‘three timing’ if there could be such a term. Even in western societies, generally frown on such practices labelling women ’sluts’ if they have multiple relationships. And if there is an attempt to defend the point that steady relationships does not include sex, then I need to wonder whether I, at fifty is behind time or someone else is. And let’s not forget the call not to put oneself at risk by having multiple sex partners.
The above was my comment posted on TOC's forum on Tan Kin Lian's article
'Even Cupid has to adapt.' Less than a minute(I counted, I was expecting it)
later, it was taken off. My reservations about Tan Kin Lian and TOC has been
vindicated. I will leave it to readers to judge for themselves.