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<table id="header" summary="This one-row table describes the contents of this document. The first column contains title and author. The second column contains copyright and other publishing information."><tbody><tr><td id="title">AN 3.67
Kathavatthu Sutta
Topics for Discussion
Translated from the Pali by
Thanissaro Bhikkhu
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<hr> Source: Transcribed from a file provided by the translator.
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</td> </tr> </tbody></table> <!-- /robots --> <hr> <!-- THE TEXT ABOVE IS AUTOMAGICALLY GENERATED FROM AN INCLUDE FILE. --> <!-- ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ --> <!-- end bbinclude --> "Monks, there are these three topics for discussion. Which three?

"One may talk about the past, saying, 'Thus it was in the past.' One may talk about the future, saying, 'Thus it will be in the future.' Or one may talk about now in the present, saying, 'Thus it is now in the present.'

"Monks, it's through his way of participating in a discussion that a person can be known as fit to talk with or unfit to talk with. If a person, when asked a question, doesn't give a categorical answer to a question deserving a categorical answer, doesn't give an analytical (qualified) answer to a question deserving an analytical answer, doesn't give a counter-question to a question deserving a counter-question, doesn't put aside a question deserving to be put aside, then — that being the case — he is a person unfit to talk with. But if a person, when asked a question, gives a categorical answer to a question deserving a categorical answer, gives an analytical answer to a question deserving an analytical answer, gives a counter-question to a question deserving a counter-question, and puts aside a question deserving to be put aside, then — that being the case — he is a person fit to talk with.

"Monks, it's through his way of participating in a discussion that a person can be known as fit to talk with or unfit to talk with. If a person, when asked a question, doesn't stand by what is possible and impossible, doesn't stand by agreed-upon assumptions, doesn't stand by teachings known to be true,1 doesn't stand by standard procedure, then — that being the case — he is a person unfit to talk with. But if a person, when asked a question, stands by what is possible and impossible, stands by agreed-upon assumptions, stands by teachings known to be true, stands by standard procedure, then — that being the case — he is a person fit to talk with.

"Monks, it's through his way of participating in a discussion that a person can be known as fit to talk with or unfit to talk with. If a person, when asked a question, wanders from one thing to another, pulls the discussion off the topic, shows anger & aversion and sulks, then — that being the case — he is a person unfit to talk with. But if a person, when asked a question, doesn't wander from one thing to another, doesn't pull the discussion off the topic, doesn't show anger or aversion or sulk, then — that being the case — he is a person fit to talk with.

"Monks, it's through his way of participating in a discussion that a person can be known as fit to talk with or unfit to talk with. If a person, when asked a question, puts down [the questioner], crushes him, ridicules him, grasps at his little mistakes, then — that being the case — he is a person unfit to talk with. But if a person, when asked a question, doesn't put down [the questioner], doesn't crush him, doesn't ridicule him, doesn't grasp at his little mistakes, then — that being the case — he is a person fit to talk with.

"Monks, it's through his way of participating in a discussion that a person can be known as drawing near or not drawing near. One who lends ear draws near; one who doesn't lend ear doesn't draw near. Drawing near, one clearly knows one quality, comprehends one quality, abandons one quality, and realizes one quality.2 Clearly knowing one quality, comprehending one quality, abandoning one quality, and realizing one quality, one touches right release. For that's the purpose of discussion, that's the purpose of counsel, that's the purpose of drawing near, that's the purpose of lending ear: i.e., the liberation of the mind through no clinging.

Those who discuss
when angered, dogmatic, arrogant,
following what's not the noble ones' way,
seeking to expose each other's faults,
delight in each other's misspoken word,
slip, stumble, defeat.
Noble ones
don't speak in that way.

If wise people, knowing the right time,
want to speak,
then, words connected with justice,
following the ways of the noble ones:
That's what the enlightened ones speak,
without anger or arrogance,
with a mind not boiling over,
without vehemence, without spite.
Without envy
they speak from right knowledge.
They would delight in what's well-said
and not disparage what's not.
They don't study to find fault,
don't grasp at little mistakes.
don't put down, don't crush,
don't speak random words.

For the purpose of knowledge,
for the purpose of [inspiring] clear confidence,
counsel that's true:
That's how noble ones give counsel,
That's the noble ones' counsel.
Knowing this, the wise
should give counsel without arrogance."


<hr> Notes
1. Reading aññaatavaada with the Burmese edition. An alternate translation would be, "the teachings of those who know."
2. According to the Commentary, these qualities are, respectively, the noble truth of the path, the noble truth of stress, the noble truth of the origination of stress, and the noble truth of the cessation of stress.


See also: AN 4.42; AN 5.165; Sn 4.8


http://www.accesstoinsight.org/tipitaka/an/an03/an03.067.than.html
 
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Thus it's obvious for all to see, in Singapore Chinese TV channels are alive and well, Chinese newsapapers are alive and well, Chinese radio stations are alive and well, Chinese pop songs are alive and well, and therefore Chinese as a languagae and a culture are alive and well in Singapore.

Happy Chinese New Year!
 

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Thus it's obvious for all to see, in Singapore Chinese TV channels are alive and well, Chinese newsapapers are alive and well, Chinese radio stations are alive and well, Chinese pop songs are alive and well, and therefore Chinese as a languagae and a culture are alive and well in Singapore.

Happy Chinese New Year!

You are unfit to talk with me. Because I had pointed out to u that the percentage of people using Chinese at home had drastically drop. I had pointed out to u again and again. And yet u keep on coming up with nonsense, about Singapore TV channel. That Chinese language is alive. NO its not that alive. Its struggling.
 

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You are unfit to talk with me.


Those who discuss
when angered, dogmatic, arrogant,
following what's not the noble ones' way,
seeking to expose each other's faults,
delight in each other's misspoken word,
slip, stumble, defeat.
Noble ones
don't speak in that way.


Because I had pointed out to u that the percentage of people using Chinese at home had drastically drop. I had pointed out to u again and again. And yet u keep on coming up with nonsense, about Singapore TV channel. That Chinese language is alive. NO its not that alive. Its struggling.


What language people use at their homes are their personal and family affairs. Anyway, most of my Chinese relatives friends speak Mandarin or Chinese dialects at home. I don't know where you get the idea from that Chinese are not speaking Chinese at home. You say "pointed out," please then, substantiate with categorical statistics. Chinese speaking English at workplaces, that I agree.
 

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What language people use at their homes are their personal and family affairs. Anyway, most of my Chinese relatives friends speak Mandarin or Chinese dialects at home. I don't know where you get the idea from that Chinese are not speaking Chinese at home. You say "pointed out," please then, substantiate with categorical statistics. Chinese speaking English at workplaces, that I agree.

Take a look at previous message, what did u say. Its above Chinese language being alive. And now, u shift gear and state the obvious about whatever language people use at home its their personal affair. OF COURSE ITS THEIR PERSONAL AFFAIR.
 

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"If a person, when asked a question, wanders from one thing to another, pulls the discussion off the topic, shows anger & aversion and sulks, then — that being the case — he is a person unfit to talk with."
 

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"Since 1984, Chinese language has been reduced into an isolated subject in primary and secondary schools, and all other subjects are taught in English, which has ever since dominated the country's education system. According to statistics from Singapore's ministry of education, 9.3 percent first year pupils of primary schools of Chinese origin used English at home in 1980, but the figure soared to 45 percent last year. What's more noticeable is, according to Singaporean population census in 2000, 35.8 percent children at the age group of 5-14 of Chinese origin mainly used English at home, while in the age-group of 15-24, only 21.5 percent used English in family conversations. If the trend remains unchanged, English will become the No.1 language for the Singaporean Chinese in one or two decades, while the Chinese language be reduced into an "alien tongue" to be learnt only in class."

http://english.peopledaily.com.cn/200402/22/eng20040222_135475.shtml


Fair enough. English usage is increasing in Chinese homes. But that's still other people's domestic affairs. I'm not too worried about what goes on in other people's homes. But if you want to worry, I can't stop you too.
 

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"If a person, when asked a question, wanders from one thing to another, pulls the discussion off the topic, shows anger & aversion and sulks, then — that being the case — he is a person unfit to talk with."


Yes, I should be guilty of that. But I can't help it. Whenever I see your nick, it means Chinese crusading to me. :biggrin:

Anyway, apology is due to you for going off topic. :o
 

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Fair enough. English usage is increasing in Chinese homes. But that's still other people's domestic affairs. I'm not too worried about what goes on in other people's homes. But if you want to worry, I can't stop you too.

At work, most people use English language, u agree on that. Now, at home people use less and less Chinese language, u agree on that too. What would that lead us? Less people using Chinese language both at home and at work.

97.6% of the population here is Asian. 75% of the population is Chinese. Chinese in this country don't have respect of their language and culture, thats not a problem?
 
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Since you began this thread with a Theravda Buddhist sutta, I'll give you an example of Buddhism in context of Chinese culture. When Buddhism first entered China towards the end of the Han Dynasty, it was very much an alien religion.

It was only during the Tang Dynasty that Sanskrit Buddhist scriptures were translated and canonised in Chinese. From thenceforth till today, Buddhism in its Mahayana denomination has been somehow considered as a Chinese religion.

It's quite common to hear a Chinese Buddhist commenting disapprovingly on a Chinese Christian, why do you believe in a foreign religion, Christianity being Jewish in origin? However, they seem oblivious to the fact that Buddhism is Indian in origin.

At one time during the rise of the peranakan culture in Malaya, and before the wholesale Islamisation of Malaya, Malayan Chinese spoke mostly Malay at home. That didn't keep the Chinese away from retaining lots of traditional cultures.

Saying Singapore is 75% is technically correct but practically invalid. We're only 700sq.m. with 4m+ surrounded by milions of sq.m. and hundreds of millions of non-Chinese. Within a thousand-mile radius from Singapore, Singapore has less Chinese than Malaysia, Indonesia and Thailand (each having about 8m+/- Chinese).
 

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清官难断家务事,政府难理家物语。

But this phenomenon is the outcome, the product of PAP govt attitude towards language. Its not just personal affair of the average sporeans. Its political when PAP force hand in this language policy.
 
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char_jig_kar

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Since you began this thread with a Theravda Buddhist sutta, I'll give you an example of Buddhism in context of Chinese culture. When Buddhism first entered China towards the end of the Han Dynasty, it was very much an alien religion.

It was only during the Tang Dynasty that Sanskrit Buddhist scriptures were translated and canonised in Chinese. From thenceforth till today, Buddhism in its Mahayana denomination has been somehow considered as a Chinese religion.

It's quite common to hear a Chinese Buddhist commenting disapprovingly on a Chinese Christian, why do you believe in a foreign religion, Christianity being Jewish in origin? However, they seem oblivious to the fact that Buddhism is Indian in origin.

At one time during the rise of the peranakan culture in Malaya, and before the wholesale Islamisation of Malaya, Malayan Chinese spoke mostly Malay at home. That didn't keep the Chinese away from retaining lots of traditional cultures.

Saying Singapore is 75% is technically correct but practically invalid. We're only 700sq.m. with 4m+ surrounded by milions of sq.m. and hundreds of millions of non-Chinese. Within a thousand-mile radius from Singapore, Singapore has less Chinese than Malaysia, Indonesia and Thailand (each having about 8m+/- Chinese).

No... Is this a country with sovereignty ? Do we have a say in our language and cultural affair?

The PAP's english as first language policy, they do it out of the pressure of the British or external forces?? No. Who make them PAP choose that? Its LEE KUAN YEW'S PERSONAL PREFERENCE ON ENGLISH LANGUAGE. ITS NOT BECAUSE OF SOME EXTERNAL FORCES.

So don't blame it on the population constituent of the whole of south east asia population. ITS A MATTER OF DESPOT LEE PERSONAL PREFERENCE WHICH BRING SINGAPORE TO WHERE WE ARE TODAY: SELF ANNIHILATION OF ASIAN CULTURAL ROOTS AND IDENTITY.
 
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But this phenomenon is the outcome, the product of PAP govt attitude towards language. Its not just personal affair. Its political when PAP force hand in this language policy.


Can the SDP or NSP or SPP (mostly English educated) or the WP (still mostly English educated with only a few Chinese educated) change this status quo? Is it good for the nation to change? I leave it here as it is. Cause I really don't know. I love both Chinese and English languages.
 

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Can the SDP or NSP or SPP (mostly English educated) or the WP (still mostly English educated with only a few Chinese educated) change this status quo? Is it good for the nation to change? I leave it here as it is. Cause I really don't know. I love both Chinese and English languages.

You are not willing to explore, and think about it? u prefer to leave it here as it is?

You said u love both Chinese and English... So why it doesn't bother u when Chinese language is going down the tube in this country? Can I say, u are in fact, loving English language much more than Chinese language?
 
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I think that I'm spending more time on improving my Thai now than on Chinese, Malay or Japanese. English is the last of my concerns.
 

char_jig_kar

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I think that I'm spending more time on improving my Thai now than on Chinese, Malay or Japanese. English is the last of my concerns.

Whenever I point out this Singapore Chinese language problem here in this forum, u would just come in and defend the status quo.

So, I don't think u are being honest about your view on language here. U are for the status quo here. Simple as that. Okay? Cut the crap and bullshit about you 'love both Chinese and English language'.
 

char_jig_kar

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About your question, that u are not sure whether Spore should change or not, your stance in this forum is pretty clear. U are for the status quo when comes to language policies.
 
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