Does it help to hate a person?

[TeeKee]

I mean does it really help to achieve whatever you want to achieve?

Or does it cause more suffering to yourself?

Why do you want to yeld to your natural instincts?

It takes alot of energy to hate......but very little energy to love....

It's very tiring to hate...

Does hating more gives you more suffering, physically or spirtually?

Why not love instead of hate?

Anybody?

 

[Sideswipe]

love, hate or do whatever for all that you are worth.

one thing is for sure - time can heal all wounds.

 

[The_Latest_H]

No point hating that person if the person doesn't care and has forgotten about you.

In the end, you hate no-one but yourself- as you imagine an imaginary enemy, and you wasted your time hating that mirage.

 

[Yoshitei]

A word of advise, live and let live.

It gets very tiring to hate a person, easier to forgive and forget.

I know of someone who was cheated and back stabbed by people closest to him and he didn't take it too well in the beginning. But as time went past, he started coming out of his shell and moved on with life.

He started doing things he always wanted to and pursue personal interests and looks happier these days although I'm sure he could be a whole lot happier but it beats his bitter self.

 

[Frankiestine]

are you doing a religious thesis?

 

[angie II]

are you doing a religious thesis?

dun worry soon it will end up in rubbish section

 

[Sideswipe]

we say in chinese - 人活着就是为了争一口气

sometimes, we just can't go of hatred or revenge. easier say than done. But time can heal all wounds.

 

[lolabunny]

we say in chinese - 人活着就是为了争一口气

sometimes, we just can't go of hatred or revenge. easier say than done. But time can heal all wounds.

Is it not better to "waste" time loving than hating?

 

[lolabunny]

I mean does it really help to achieve whatever you want to achieve?

Or does it cause more suffering to yourself?

Why do you want to yeld to your natural instincts?

It takes alot of energy to hate......but very little energy to love....

It's very tiring to hate...

Does hating more gives you more suffering, physically or spirtually?

Why not love instead of hate?

Anybody?

Isn't the natural instinct to also love?

Let's all group hug!

 

[panama]

No, it will not help just as CSJ does not hate LKY

 

[bebo]

You don't hate. You neutralize or decimate

 

[Leongsam]

A word of advise, live and let live.

Should be "A word of ADVICE....".

"Advise" is a verb.

 

[Frankiestine]

Isn't the natural instinct to also love?

Let's all group hug!

I thought man natural instinct is to copulate....

 

[po2wq]

if ze tot of hate keeps on playing on ur mind, u make urself angry 4 nothing n u end up ze oni loser ...

4gif ur enemy but remember his name ...

if u kena 1st time fr sum1, iz nt ur fault ... if u din learn ur lesson n kena again fr ze same person n u feel damn dulan, den u hv oni urself 2 blame ...

 

[jw5]

I mean does it really help to achieve whatever you want to achieve?

Or does it cause more suffering to yourself?

Why do you want to yeld to your natural instincts?

It takes alot of energy to hate......but very little energy to love....

It's very tiring to hate...

Does hating more gives you more suffering, physically or spirtually?

Why not love instead of hate?

Anybody?

It helps if you do something about it.

 

[jw5]

No point hating that person if the person doesn't care and has forgotten about you.

In the end, you hate no-one but yourself- as you imagine an imaginary enemy, and you wasted your time hating that mirage.

It's great if the person has forgotten about you and the event.
That would be the time to strike.

 

[Sideswipe]

No, it will not help just as CSJ does not hate LKY

why CSJ is doing all this?

because 人活着就是为了争一口气

 

[lolabunny]

It's great if the person has forgotten about you and the event.
That would be the time to strike.

Wah you are a scary guy!

 

[angie II]

人活着就是为了争一口气

can translate?

 

[cliffstyle]

No point in hating at all. Life is more than us hate. Hate and anger brings nothing to one. Learn to forgive and move on.

take it easy and make things easy.