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For example, like my mother, she says my GF...
1. Didn't come from top girl schools like RGS, SCGS, RJC or HCJC
2. Didn't come from upper middle class household
3. Stayed in HDB flat all her life
4. Do not know how to cook good and proper meals for the family
5. Speaks Hokkien and sort of Ah Lian type
6. Wears branded clothes and handbags that I buy for her but still cannot carry herself as high class when going for fine dining with my mother
7. Tattoo a dolphin at her foot, just above her heel, is like a girl's home ex inmate
8. Questions why my GF father is a taxi driver and says he must be a useless PSLE failure gangster when he was young
9. Says my GF mother dresses like a wet market aunty shopper because she speaks too much hokkien
10. Says why CNY my GF parents never send a big and expensive hamper like what my mother sent to them
Etc etc...
Why are older generation parents so discriminatory? As long as my GF is good to me and don't cheat on me, I find her acceptable irrespective of her family background, schools she attended, dialect group etc.
Right?
Why need to be so discriminatory?
It doesn't mean only a girl who comes from well to do family is a good daughter in law, correct?
Any comments?
1. Didn't come from top girl schools like RGS, SCGS, RJC or HCJC
2. Didn't come from upper middle class household
3. Stayed in HDB flat all her life
4. Do not know how to cook good and proper meals for the family
5. Speaks Hokkien and sort of Ah Lian type
6. Wears branded clothes and handbags that I buy for her but still cannot carry herself as high class when going for fine dining with my mother
7. Tattoo a dolphin at her foot, just above her heel, is like a girl's home ex inmate
8. Questions why my GF father is a taxi driver and says he must be a useless PSLE failure gangster when he was young
9. Says my GF mother dresses like a wet market aunty shopper because she speaks too much hokkien
10. Says why CNY my GF parents never send a big and expensive hamper like what my mother sent to them
Etc etc...
Why are older generation parents so discriminatory? As long as my GF is good to me and don't cheat on me, I find her acceptable irrespective of her family background, schools she attended, dialect group etc.
Right?
Why need to be so discriminatory?
It doesn't mean only a girl who comes from well to do family is a good daughter in law, correct?
Any comments?