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Curse of the lottery winner

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Curse of the lottery winner

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12:39 PM Sunday Apr 4, 2010
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There is a species of moralising that revels in stories such as that of Keith Gough, the former baker who died last week cursing his £9m (NZ$19.4m) lottery win in 2005 and the damage it did to his life. There you are, they say, that's what happens when the sort of person who buys Lottery tickets collects a large sum of money. They blow it, as he did, on fancy cars, racehorses and booze; and it kills them - in Mr Gough's case, at the age of 58, after a break-up of his marriage, much drink and a final, fatal heart attack. "What's the point of having money," he told a newspaper last year, "when it sends you to bed crying?"

And the moralisers don't have to look far for other telling tales. Take Michael Carroll, right, a binman who won £9.7m in 2002. By this year - four homes, a villa in Spain, enough gold jewellery to fill a pharaoh's tomb, several court appearances and a drug habit that was allegedly costing him £2,000 a day later - it was all gone.

Former security guard John Roberts ended up living in a caravan with £20,000 debts after spending much of his 1998 win of £3.5m, and then there's Stuart Donnelly, who won £2m when 17, in 1997. He found the pressures very hard to deal with ("I even had people camping outside my house ..."), became something of a prisoner inside his home and was dead at just 29. In 1995, Mike Antonucci won £2.8m, and most of it was spent by 2009 - on a string of failed business ventures, a house in a former convent, a recording studio in which he aimed to cut a Christmas number one and on a marriage to a glamour model 27 years his junior which lasted just 12 weeks.

Callie Rogers from Workington in Cumbria was only 16 when she won £1.9m in 2003. She bought a £33,000 Range Rover, paid a boyfriend £3,000 to drive her around (both he and the car soon disappeared), blew more than half a million on homes for her and the family, £200,000 on holidays and £450,000 on clothes, a good time and breast implants. But the young woman, who had been in care, felt that people - especially a series of troublesome suitors - wanted her only for her money. By last year, she had survived a suicide attempt and told a newspaper: "I wish I had never won." She did, however, set up a six-figure trust fund for her two children.

And then there's the Lottery winners in the dock. Not only Michael Carroll, but also Brian Baldwin of Carmarthenshire (£220,000 win in 2005, admitted fraudulently claiming benefits two years later); Leah Sumray, a former chip shop worker from Cornwall (£1m win in 2007, contempt of court in 2008); Blackburn man Melvyn Howlett (£1.2m in 2001, three months jail for tobacco smuggling in 2005); Nicola Triplett (£166,000 in 2000, but jailed for killing her former lover with a pair of scissors in 2008); and David Dyas (£4m in 1998; 15 years in 2008 for raping two schoolgirls).

Plus, of course, multi-convicted sex offender Iorworth Hoare, who affronted everyone's sense of natural justice when he won £7m in 2004. It's all proof that lottery millions might buy you a Lamborghini, a Miami condo, the world's best breast implants and an account at Harrods, but they can't buy you a character transplant.
These cases we know because they made it to the courts or became one of the car-crash life stories served up to rubber-necking readers in magazines and tabloids. But they are very much the exceptions. Since the National Lottery started in 1994, it has created more than 2,400 millionaires or multi-millionaires. Most may have had some uncomfortable moments, and anxieties about the effect of their win on friends and family, but they have not ripped through their fortune in a few hedonistic years. Sadly for the moralists, they - and their families and some good causes - seem to have benefited. Professor Andrew Oswald of Warwick University, who has studied Lottery winners, told the BBC recently: "Lots of people would like to think there are a lot of miserable millionaires out there, but even quite small windfalls show up in our statistics on psychological well being. And large sums are better than small sums."

Some winners show extraordinary generosity. Last year a couple from Sheffield called Barbara and Ray Wragg gave away more than £5.5m of their £7.6m win in nine years, to such causes as reimbursing conned pensioners to equipping children's hospitals.

Finally, we didn't need the lottery to show us that sudden wealth can corrode relationships and turn heads giddy. The history of inheritance and the argy-bargy it causes in thousands of families each year tells us that.
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I will take the risk. Singapore Sweep this Wednesday. S$2.2 million. PLEASE!
 
I need this sort of money to lift my head up again in front of my family,friends and relatives. Even my lif is shortened,i think it's worthwhile!
 
why people always think they could win the lottery?

the chances of getting run over by a bus is much higher than winning the lottery..
 
sweep tickets are sold everywhere...

to all the suckers like you..:D

what's the point of winning ticket, if you cannot live to claim your prizes?

talking about church, one interesting story to relate.

my ah kong used to buy lottery tickets since he was a young man, neber won once in his entire life...

when he was an old man and after he became christian and goes to church frequently, at the same time put money in the offering bags..

he keep winning one after another....does this only happen to him or someone else could relate similar things?

i donno maybe God is telling him to collect his money back from the SGP pools he invested many years ago...LOL! :D
 
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when he was an old man and after he became christian and goes to church frequently, at the same time put money in the offering bags..

he keep winning one after another....does this only happen to him or someone else could relate similar things?

Now that you mention it....... i remember when i was a volunteer at the tua pek kong loyang temple which was famous for giving winning numbers......... there was always the same group of people kenna lottery while many others got nothing...... after years of observation....... those that always kenna are those that always donate and share their winnings with the temple....... those that never donate are always the ones that cowpehcowbu missed this number jump that number and hardly ever kenna.

coincidence? or God's mysterious way of working?
 
Now that you mention it....... i remember when i was a volunteer at the tua pek kong loyang temple which was famous for giving winning numbers......... there was always the same group of people kenna lottery while many others got nothing...... after years of observation....... those that always kenna are those that always donate and share their winnings with the temple....... those that never donate are always the ones that cowpehcowbu missed this number jump that number and hardly ever kenna.

coincidence? or God's mysterious way of working?
It has got to be coincidence.
Otherwise, how do you explain the case of our superministars?
 
People who buy lottery should do so with an unemotional and detached approach, or as the chinese say "ping chang xin" or "normal heart".
Go and buy lottery with money you can afford to lose.
If you don't win, forget it and buy for the next draw with money you can afford to lose.
If you win, keep the money safe. If you like your job, continue with it but keep quiet about your winnings. If you don't like your job, go and do something you like.
I find it amazing how some people behave and how they talk before buying toto or 4D, it's as if they think they are definitely going to win and they must buy or else it will be a disaster.
 
It has got to be coincidence.
Otherwise, how do you explain the case of our superministars?

their life story haven't ended yet...i.e. akang datang...

by leeching on peasants sweat and blood....i worry for them...:D
 
People who buy lottery should do so with an unemotional and detached approach, or as the chinese say "ping chang xin" or "normal heart".

and you are speaking from multiple winning experiences?
 
Count yourself fortunate to be given the time and opportunties to show care and concern to your family, friends and relatives. Some things don't need alot of money to bring warmth to your loved ones.

As long as loved ones are healthy and safe, which is one of the big fortunes in live.

As long as you don't look down on yourself, take care of your loved ones and dont cause them to worry.

Ego is poison. Strength is in the man's heart.

In the end all of us turn to white powder; which powder is whiter or finer than the other persons powder? Does it matter then?

Value life when you have it.

Money we need. Count ourselves lucky when we are able to earn it. Comparison with others is pointless....no end to comparisons.

You see me good, I see you good. Some got troubles, but dont show it and act tough.

Happiness, health and safety is blessing.

I need this sort of money to lift my head up again in front of my family,friends and relatives. Even my lif is shortened,i think it's worthwhile!
 
greed

i am not 100% sure. but the winner can decide remain anonymous.
if no one know if you win, no one will come to cheat you. no one will come and ask money from you.

the reason for them not to be anonymous, is because they get more money if they appear in public. to get the money quickly, they also get less money.

lottery normally pay in instalment, they can choose to get the money slowly over the years or quickly but less money.

if i win, i will not let anyone know. i also will get choose to get money slowly over the years.
 
In the end all of us turn to white powder; which powder is whiter or finer than the other persons powder? Does it matter then?

i think the crematorium don't do a good job...you still can see bones fragments....not entirely powder unless you grind them with a machine...
 
i think the crematorium don't do a good job...you still can see bones fragments....not entirely powder unless you grind them with a machine...

after cremation, they need to move the pieces of small bone fragment into a another machine fill with metal ball bearing, and it rotate very quickly, the metal ball bearing will crush the bone into powder form.

the angmoh normally use this grinder, but asia normally keep the bone fragments in jar.
 
Our Singapore President and ministers are very lucky group of people...

It is like strike big sweep lottery every six months for them.
 
sweep tickets are sold everywhere...

to all the suckers like you..:D

what's the point of winning ticket, if you cannot live to claim your prizes?

talking about church, one interesting story to relate.

my ah kong used to buy lottery tickets since he was a young man, neber won once in his entire life...

when he was an old man and after he became christian and goes to church frequently, at the same time put money in the offering bags..

he keep winning one after another....
does this only happen to him or someone else could relate similar things?

i donno maybe God is telling him to collect his money back from the SGP pools he invested many years ago...LOL! :D


OKay firstly christians don't encourage gambling, if ur ah kong became christian well it's weird that he goes against the teachings.

2ndly u said he put money into the offering bags and won money? Or do u mean to say after he went to church everytime he buys lottery he strikes?
 
after cremation, they need to move the pieces of small bone fragment into a another machine fill with metal ball bearing, and it rotate very quickly, the metal ball bearing will crush the bone into powder form.

the angmoh normally use this grinder, but asia normally keep the bone fragments in jar.

damn those taoists masters, trying to make money out of the bereaved..
 
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