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Broken Marriages the Norm in Sg Now?

makapaaa

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<TABLE cellSpacing=0 cellPadding=0 width="100%" border=0><TBODY><TR>Wife wins suit to name hubby as baby's dad
</TR><!-- headline one : end --><TR>Man refused to hand over IC to register son's birth; illegitimate status would mean no child perks </TR><!-- Author --><TR><TD class="padlrt8 georgia11 darkgrey bold" colSpan=2>By K.C. Vijayan, Law Correspondent
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<!-- START OF : div id="storytext"--><!-- more than 4 paragraphs -->A BABY, about a year old now, will no longer need to go through life branded as illegitimate.
When he was born, his father refused to be named on the birth certificate. This would have deprived the child of benefits lawful offspring get, such as the baby bonus, priority in enrolment for school and other perks. His mother, believing the child should not have to suffer the fallout from her failed relationship with the baby's father, took her case to court.
Yesterday, she won.
What makes this case unusual is that it was no fallout between unmarried teen parents. The couple had been married for 21/2 years. But the union had soured to the point of no return from before the baby's birth.
The father, a 30-year-old insurance executive, has not seen his son and wants nothing to do with him. He refused to hand over his identity card for his name to be entered on the child's birth certificate.
The woman, a 28-year-old bank officer, took her case to a lawyer.
The couple have separated but are not yet divorced. They cannot be named to protect the child's identity.
Yesterday, the High Court allowed her to declare her estranged husband as the father and for the birth to be re-registered with the father's name on the certificate.
Family lawyer Rajan Chettiar, commenting on the case, said: 'Such a case involving married parties is very rare, but the concern should be how it will affect their future lives and how it will impact on the inevitable divorce proceedings.'
That the couple had to go to court just to settle the boy's parentage 'shows the unsettling, underlying emotional turmoil', he added.
Last month, a DNA test the husband agreed to take proved he was the father of the child.
By the woman's account, difficulties surfaced about a year into the 2006 marriage. This was when she flew to Britain, where he had gone for a job interview.
While there, she was accused by his family of having stolen his money.
Depressed and angry, she returned here alone, moved in with her mother and did not contact him. She was already pregnant by then, but he continued to abuse and harass her on his return, to the extent, she claimed, that she lost her job in a bank. Matters came to a head in October 2007, when she obtained a personal protection order against him, which she later dropped.
Her lawyer Roy Yeo, when contacted yesterday, said: 'The case affirms the court's concern for the child's welfare as the prime focus of attention.
'While my client will face some serious issues ahead, a major hurdle has been cleared and she can look ahead with some comfort and confidence.' [email protected]
 

Watchman

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Marriage is a sham in Singapore ! Truth and honesty !

Broken Marriage thus a norm ! No more lies and hypocrisy !
 

kakowi

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His mother, believing the child should not have to suffer the fallout from her failed relationship with the baby's father, took her case to court.

Yesterday, she won.

...


What she neglected to say is that with the father's name on the ic, she is now entitled to enforce child's support on him.

What they should have done was to practice birth control until they are sure of each other or decide to split.

Then this sorry state of affairs need not happen.
 

whattodo

New Member
My wife was divorced once.

She refused to spend a single cent on everything starting from preparing for our wedding.

We've married for 2 years, and so far there are countable times she paid for 1) dining out (she would make it clear she's giving me a treat!) 2) grocery, and this is only when she has no choice but went out by herself.

if it was not her sister who said she needs to pay for my wedding band, I am sure i have to buy it myself.

if she has an excuse for not doing something at home, she will.

she makes me pay her income tax, her hdb (from previous marriage).
practically I am covering all the cost of the household and still have to pay allowance to her parents for looking after our kids for us.

she quit her job "to look after children". I bet she spends more time in front of the tv. at least this is what I witness in the evening.

she is now verbally abusing me regularly, from making sacrastic remarks to downright insulting me.

What to do? I am screwed. If I divoice her, does the court bother with her passed record ? I wonder and unlikely. Marriage is not like merchandise. Cannot claim its bad right from the start.

Shit. I am screwed. Maybe dying is a better alternative than giving my asset to this unthankful person.

tonight she said I am a useless man. And she had the guts to repeat when I ask her to do so. I know she is speaking her true feeling. I am not only useless, I am extremely stupid to even find her interesting in the first place. I will pay for my stupidity with my life eventually.

:(
 

Angelo

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oh fuck. u re truly fucked. my condolences.

Heres a trick, get a friend to bring her to 1 of the duck shops, and take some pictures. That way ur assets will be quite safe.
 

yellow_people

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If the Chinese Singaporean spent more time wooing the Singapore female instead of spending $$$ on cheap thrills while getting wasted and licking PRC whore's cunt in ktv.. he'll likely have a whole lot more luck at love.

Most Chinks pay for sex. Look at the amount of PRC whores at Geylang, KTVs, HC and what not. That blunts little of what nature has given the Chinks. Like the zoo. Feed them and they refuse to hunt.

Is it any wonder why most Chinese girls are going after Ang Mohs an an assortment of FTs while swearing off the Sinkie Chink?

Chink males need to do a little self reflection.

My 2 cents worth.
 

whattodo

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oh fuck. u re truly fucked. my condolences.

Heres a trick, get a friend to bring her to 1 of the duck shops, and take some pictures. That way ur assets will be quite safe.

she can say she accompany the friend to go there.
i may even end up paying for the bill.

saving the marriage is of course a more constructive method.

but then, if the person herself is 'broken' , nothing can be done.
 

Angelo

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she can say she accompany the friend to go there.
i may even end up paying for the bill.

saving the marriage is of course a more constructive method.

but then, if the person herself is 'broken' , nothing can be done.

no. try get a PI and catch her and the duck in action in hotel 81. Going to shop is the 1st step. 1 thing leads to another. u should know what i mean.
 

whattodo

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no. try get a PI and catch her and the duck in action in hotel 81. Going to shop is the 1st step. 1 thing leads to another. u should know what i mean.

sorry to say but that's naive.
she doesn't need to be interested in having sex with a duck when she doesn't want me as husband! the two ideas do not relate to each other.

maybe I end up paynig for the duck's bill, hotel bill and the PI's bill!!!! ha
 

Angelo

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adultery is a ground for divorce and you dont have to pay the bitch anything if shes the one doing it.

sigh. now then regret. why last time u use ur other head to think? geylang so many whores. why settle for one?

lol.
 

kakowi

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adultery is a ground for divorce and you dont have to pay the bitch anything if shes the one doing it.

..


That is not correct.

They do not call it the Women's Charter for nothing. Read your marriage contract again.

Be Aware.
 

Royalblood

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yeah fark it...

my fren paid $40k in lawyers fee excluding the settlement...now half of everything belong to the biatch

He is now broke but happy man


In light of the onerous liability in the Cheebyes' Charter, why did Singaporean men not think of placing the bulk of their assets in a trust? It is extremely flexible you can put in whatever clause you want in the trust deed to your own benefit.
 

tonychat

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Why after reading this thread, i feel that i made the right choice. :smile: That feels good.
 

halsey02

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Fuck on the run....was the banker a virgin?...she have a DNA to proof child was his?, and insurance agent..well known industry 'farkers'....!! heh heh heh
 

batman1

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My wife was divorced once.

She refused to spend a single cent on everything starting from preparing for our wedding.

We've married for 2 years, and so far there are countable times she paid for 1) dining out (she would make it clear she's giving me a treat!) 2) grocery, and this is only when she has no choice but went out by herself.

if it was not her sister who said she needs to pay for my wedding band, I am sure i have to buy it myself.

if she has an excuse for not doing something at home, she will.

she makes me pay her income tax, her hdb (from previous marriage).
practically I am covering all the cost of the household and still have to pay allowance to her parents for looking after our kids for us.

she quit her job "to look after children". I bet she spends more time in front of the tv. at least this is what I witness in the evening.

she is now verbally abusing me regularly, from making sacrastic remarks to downright insulting me.

What to do? I am screwed. If I divoice her, does the court bother with her passed record ? I wonder and unlikely. Marriage is not like merchandise. Cannot claim its bad right from the start.

Shit. I am screwed. Maybe dying is a better alternative than giving my asset to this unthankful person.

tonight she said I am a useless man. And she had the guts to repeat when I ask her to do so. I know she is speaking her true feeling. I am not only useless, I am extremely stupid to even find her interesting in the first place. I will pay for my stupidity with my life eventually.

:(

Very frightening ! How did u get into this entangles mess ?
 

Snipeshot08

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oh fuck. u re truly fucked. my condolences.

Heres a trick, get a friend to bring her to 1 of the duck shops, and take some pictures. That way ur assets will be quite safe.

adultery is a ground for divorce and you dont have to pay the bitch anything if shes the one doing it.

sigh. now then regret. why last time u use ur other head to think? geylang so many whores. why settle for one?

lol.


Harlo gents just to clear the air....:p

When you go for any such proceedings, the divorce and the maintenance settlement are two SEPARATE proceedings, it doesnt' means if she is the one that commits adultery you can refused to spilt assets or pay her alimony....:wink:
 
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