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People’s Action Party (PAP) parliamentarian Tan Wu Meng has penned and published a letter to a junior doctor who broke down when one of her patients passed away. The doctor, 26-year-old Alvona Loh Zi Hui who works at a local hospital, had recounted her experience in a letter published by TODAY.
In her letter, Dr Loh described how she remembers the strength of a stage 4 cancer patient who had opted for palliative care after several failed rounds of chemotherapy. The patient, who was in his 60s, was always cheery despite his pain and told Dr Loh stories about his life and shared his dreams with her during the three weeks she cared for him as part of his primary internal medicine team.
Describing how much her interactions with the patient moved her, Dr Loh wrote: “I took care of you for almost three weeks. Our conversations shifted from your life stories and hopes, to your acceptance of the disease and wish to be comfortable at life’s end.”
One night, Dr Loh was the on-call doctor taking care of your ward when she was informed that the nurses could no longer measure her patient’s vitals. Dr Loh rushed to his bedside immediately but found that her patient had died overnight. The young doctor recounted:
“You were the first patient to have died under my watch. Your family, including your extended family, were by your bedside. I explained to them that we would be preparing your certificate of death. Everyone was in solemn silence.”
Later, Dr Loh broke down and began crying in the privacy of the doctor’s room. She said that she was surprised that she was grieving even though she should have been prepared for the patient’s impending death given his medical decline and bleak prognosis.
She wrote: “There was not much time for grief. There were patients to be seen, blood test results to review, chest X- rays to be read. It was a hectic night call and my phone was ringing incessantly. I held back my tears as I did not want the nurses to see me crying.”
https://www.msn.com/en-sg/news/sing...oke-down-when-patient-passed-away/ar-AAJnm88?
In her letter, Dr Loh described how she remembers the strength of a stage 4 cancer patient who had opted for palliative care after several failed rounds of chemotherapy. The patient, who was in his 60s, was always cheery despite his pain and told Dr Loh stories about his life and shared his dreams with her during the three weeks she cared for him as part of his primary internal medicine team.
Describing how much her interactions with the patient moved her, Dr Loh wrote: “I took care of you for almost three weeks. Our conversations shifted from your life stories and hopes, to your acceptance of the disease and wish to be comfortable at life’s end.”
One night, Dr Loh was the on-call doctor taking care of your ward when she was informed that the nurses could no longer measure her patient’s vitals. Dr Loh rushed to his bedside immediately but found that her patient had died overnight. The young doctor recounted:
“You were the first patient to have died under my watch. Your family, including your extended family, were by your bedside. I explained to them that we would be preparing your certificate of death. Everyone was in solemn silence.”
Later, Dr Loh broke down and began crying in the privacy of the doctor’s room. She said that she was surprised that she was grieving even though she should have been prepared for the patient’s impending death given his medical decline and bleak prognosis.
She wrote: “There was not much time for grief. There were patients to be seen, blood test results to review, chest X- rays to be read. It was a hectic night call and my phone was ringing incessantly. I held back my tears as I did not want the nurses to see me crying.”
https://www.msn.com/en-sg/news/sing...oke-down-when-patient-passed-away/ar-AAJnm88?
