My friend sought my advice today.
We went for dinner together just now and in the midst of munching happily away, she suddenly disclosed to me that she's pregnant and asked if she should abort.
I asked her whose child is it? She said she couldn't recall whether it is her current boyfriend or ex boyfriend. I was like...HUH??? I asked her why she gone back to sleep with her ex boyfriend. She said she can only remember quarreling with her boyfriend a few weeks ago and then out of anger and spite, she met up with her ex boyfriend and had some intimate moments together. She also said the child could be her current boyfriend 骨肉 as well. She's not exactly sure.
I told her to abort so as not to screw up her current relationship. I reckon that by the time the child is born and DNA done, it would be too late to rectify.
Now I am at home. Took a shower and more clear in my head. I am thinking about this and I kind of not sure of my advice to abort. The child is innocent after all and it's sort of cruel to abort.
Can a man accept a child that is not his, if his girlfriend confesses and says sorry for the mistake? Or will the man break off the relationship?
I mean if I have a boyfriend (assuming) and if he makes another girl pregnant, I guess I will also break off with him. I don't know. Very complex and complicated for me
We went for dinner together just now and in the midst of munching happily away, she suddenly disclosed to me that she's pregnant and asked if she should abort.
I asked her whose child is it? She said she couldn't recall whether it is her current boyfriend or ex boyfriend. I was like...HUH??? I asked her why she gone back to sleep with her ex boyfriend. She said she can only remember quarreling with her boyfriend a few weeks ago and then out of anger and spite, she met up with her ex boyfriend and had some intimate moments together. She also said the child could be her current boyfriend 骨肉 as well. She's not exactly sure.
I told her to abort so as not to screw up her current relationship. I reckon that by the time the child is born and DNA done, it would be too late to rectify.
Now I am at home. Took a shower and more clear in my head. I am thinking about this and I kind of not sure of my advice to abort. The child is innocent after all and it's sort of cruel to abort.
Can a man accept a child that is not his, if his girlfriend confesses and says sorry for the mistake? Or will the man break off the relationship?
I mean if I have a boyfriend (assuming) and if he makes another girl pregnant, I guess I will also break off with him. I don't know. Very complex and complicated for me