Don't waste your time trying to figure out what a woman desires in a man, and then to tune yourself according to your desired woman's desires.
A woman wants to create a man for herself, and you fake that creation. However, it's a fake creation after all, and it will not last after you are no longer infatuated with the woman creator.
And then you fake another creation for another woman creator.
Just be honest with yourself and you will snap out of this endless cycle - YOU ONLY WANT A CHEEBYE !