Dear all,
I am in the 40s and have been happily married for the past decade. Ok, mostly happy until the past 12 months, where I have been quarrelling with my hubby over sex.
at first i dont understand where he suddenly get so many weird and dirty requests, then eventually i found out that he has been surfing a dirty singapore sex forum! :(
i quarrelled with him badly that day, in fact its been about 6 months from that time I caught his browser history.
he is a very nice guy, work hard in a government agency and come home for dinner every day. he is shy guy, loves to read in his free time. his happiest day was when i gave him a kindle.
however about 12 months ago, he start asking me to wear sexily, and i was annoyed but i thought maybe because he started surfing qoo10 shopping and found all those scantily lingeries.
at first i thought nothing of it, until he actually bought some very revealing lingeries for me!
I was shocked when the parcel arrives, and that was our first quarrel.
he wanted me to wear it for him and of course i refuse, i am his wife!!
in the end, i did wear it for him at a birthday but it was so weird, i feel so ashamed of myself.
then he start asking us to try different positions in sex, and it was "doggy" and that was one quarrel too. what is wrong with missionary? Sometimes i do woman on top too, although it was weird that I am on him. he is a man and should be on him. doggy i feel so animal and humiliated. i thought i had pleased him and then he started asking for standing position, that was when the quarrels started more fierce. i stood my ground because when is it going to end? already gave him his doggy and he asking for more? what is next? next time he will be asking for bathroom sex!
In fact, i was right!! he started asking me to put my mouth over it and give him oral sex or blow job.
It was really really gross!!
that is where he urines and he wants me to put in my mouth! eeeek.
i am a mother of two, and he wants me to put that thing in his mouth, i feel that that is disgusting, he insists its normal, but we never done it for the past decade why he suddenly ask. Does he think of me as a porn girl? I am not a whore, how could he demand me to blow him?
i really get very angry thinking he got all these ideas surfing those men forums! so i found this forum and look around for other sex topics and see if there are other married women with the same problems.
can give me some solutions? how do i stop him becoming a sex pervert?
i wish he can go back to the older days and we can go out and eat and stroll at the beaches and visit libraries together instead of him buying new lingeries and keep asking me to wear this wear that for him. its very annoying he bought so many different colours like i am working in gelyang!
http://petalbytes.com/motherhood-babies-and-fathers/my-hubby-is-a-sex-pervert!/
I am in the 40s and have been happily married for the past decade. Ok, mostly happy until the past 12 months, where I have been quarrelling with my hubby over sex.
at first i dont understand where he suddenly get so many weird and dirty requests, then eventually i found out that he has been surfing a dirty singapore sex forum! :(
i quarrelled with him badly that day, in fact its been about 6 months from that time I caught his browser history.
he is a very nice guy, work hard in a government agency and come home for dinner every day. he is shy guy, loves to read in his free time. his happiest day was when i gave him a kindle.
however about 12 months ago, he start asking me to wear sexily, and i was annoyed but i thought maybe because he started surfing qoo10 shopping and found all those scantily lingeries.
at first i thought nothing of it, until he actually bought some very revealing lingeries for me!
I was shocked when the parcel arrives, and that was our first quarrel.
he wanted me to wear it for him and of course i refuse, i am his wife!!
in the end, i did wear it for him at a birthday but it was so weird, i feel so ashamed of myself.
then he start asking us to try different positions in sex, and it was "doggy" and that was one quarrel too. what is wrong with missionary? Sometimes i do woman on top too, although it was weird that I am on him. he is a man and should be on him. doggy i feel so animal and humiliated. i thought i had pleased him and then he started asking for standing position, that was when the quarrels started more fierce. i stood my ground because when is it going to end? already gave him his doggy and he asking for more? what is next? next time he will be asking for bathroom sex!
In fact, i was right!! he started asking me to put my mouth over it and give him oral sex or blow job.
It was really really gross!!
that is where he urines and he wants me to put in my mouth! eeeek.
i am a mother of two, and he wants me to put that thing in his mouth, i feel that that is disgusting, he insists its normal, but we never done it for the past decade why he suddenly ask. Does he think of me as a porn girl? I am not a whore, how could he demand me to blow him?
i really get very angry thinking he got all these ideas surfing those men forums! so i found this forum and look around for other sex topics and see if there are other married women with the same problems.
can give me some solutions? how do i stop him becoming a sex pervert?
i wish he can go back to the older days and we can go out and eat and stroll at the beaches and visit libraries together instead of him buying new lingeries and keep asking me to wear this wear that for him. its very annoying he bought so many different colours like i am working in gelyang!
http://petalbytes.com/motherhood-babies-and-fathers/my-hubby-is-a-sex-pervert!/
