Sorry Bro on hearing about your past experience.. Happened to my Uncle too... He was lonely chap eversince his wife died..He Get to know this PRC beer gal at Redhill.. Splurged 20k on her.. Money was not an object for him since he's used to be a remisier.. But he run road when PRC gal got pregnant..:o Then he managed to hooked up with this 40 year Penang divorcee.. Now he's enjoying life there..
No regrets, thanks for feeling sorry for me.