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turning here as i have no avenue to talk about it.
i recently found out my husband visited a sex worker.
we always had a loving relationship and i look up alot to him. honestly he has always been the sweetest partner
- cooking
- generous (financially too)
- active to look after my parents too esp when my dad was sick
- we have alot chemistry
so was devasted when i found out..
background of events
slightly more than a year ago, i already caught him sexting random girls on wechat. He swore that he didnt meet them and he was just venting. we both went for couple counselling and it was a good opportunity for him to share some of the things that had been weighing on him (and vice versa for me too) some of the topics we talked abt were
- decline in the frequency of our sex
- frustration on household chores
- resentment over how i dealt with his unemployment period (happened right before the pandemic)
- realisation we dont quarrel 'healthily' (meaning while our arguements are short lived, we tend to just bury them under the rug and move on without addressing the crux of it)
More at https://shrtcô.de/zYQCgj
i recently found out my husband visited a sex worker.
we always had a loving relationship and i look up alot to him. honestly he has always been the sweetest partner
- cooking
- generous (financially too)
- active to look after my parents too esp when my dad was sick
- we have alot chemistry
so was devasted when i found out..
background of events
slightly more than a year ago, i already caught him sexting random girls on wechat. He swore that he didnt meet them and he was just venting. we both went for couple counselling and it was a good opportunity for him to share some of the things that had been weighing on him (and vice versa for me too) some of the topics we talked abt were
- decline in the frequency of our sex
- frustration on household chores
- resentment over how i dealt with his unemployment period (happened right before the pandemic)
- realisation we dont quarrel 'healthily' (meaning while our arguements are short lived, we tend to just bury them under the rug and move on without addressing the crux of it)
More at https://shrtcô.de/zYQCgj