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need advise when visiting luxurious boutiques

tonychat

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Hi. My actual objective of the thread was to get some pre idea of how to behave appropriately when inside a luxurious shop as I have no experience at all. The next thread could possibly be how to do a proper fine dinings with a gal. Not so much about price and whatsoever .

Long ago a potential gf ever told me she measure a man by how they behave in such a posh place. She even specifically told me a confident man when placing a order in a restaurant is different from a low confident person.
I remembered her words and just wanted to deliver the right way this time.

You totally give a shit to what women say, it mean you have no confident at all.. Loser.. A disgrace of men.
 

takashi

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Long ago a potential gf ever told me she measure a man by how they behave in such a posh place.
But how would you measure such a woman? :wink:
Personally, on a scale of zero to perfect ten, I would rate her as below five, because she certainly cannot pass, no matter how pretty/sexy she is. :wink:
 

chootchiew

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But how would you measure such a woman? :wink:
Personally, on a scale of zero to perfect ten, I would rate her as below five, because she certainly cannot pass, no matter how pretty/sexy she is. :wink:

I measure a woman by their overall appearance with leg being the first criteria. After that if we can talk anything under the sun n I feel comfortable.not a siao charbor then mostly is their call liao.very simple requirement unlike yours :biggrin:
 

MovieStar

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If she no intention to have serious relationship with you.
She should not take such expensive present.

If she truly likes you or loves you. She will not take such expensive present from you too.

So.. I do not know to her. Who are you?
Bf? Soulmate? Or someone can chop carrot head?

Wait for 6 months later. Wait you tell us whether you develop further r/s with her not.
 

takashi

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I measure a woman by their overall appearance with leg being the first criteria.
You mean you believe in judging a book by its cover? :confused:


After that if we can talk anything under the sun n I feel comfortable.not a siao charbor then mostly is their call liao.very simple requirement unlike yours :biggrin:
You mean "anything under the sun" (which can include HUNDREDS of different issues) = simple? :confused:


I think the traditional Japanese way is much better, i.e. women (regardless of whether they are wives, daughters, mothers, or sisters, etc.) in Japan are second-class citizens, just like women in Muslim countries and even some other non-Muslim countries.
Their role is to serve men at HOME (literally in the house), not the other way round.

The role of MEN is to RISK their LIVES to do women the FAVOUR of providing them with their basic necessities (mainly safe shelter, and food and water), so that women don't have to risk their own lives to acquire those necessities. And I say "FAVOUR" because men are NOT obliged to do this favour for women; men can simply roam around the country, or even the world, and fend for themselves without needing any assistance or comfort from women.

That is why women should SERVE men at home, in RETURN for all the various FAVOURS that men do for them.
 

chootchiew

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You mean you believe in judging a book by its cover? :confused:



You mean "anything under the sun" (which can include HUNDREDS of different .
Yeah to me book cover is important that can attract me to read further. If after that realise always hv communication breakdown can't talk on many issue then I will stop reading.
Is simple to me when is not gf or wife yet. Once become official gf /wife maybe not simple I guess.
 

Scrooball (clone)

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The fact that she took the $1.5k wallet without being in a relationship with the gong cheebye tells as much about her character. No decent woman will take an unwarranted gift as expensive as this. I swear the thread starter is a gong cheebye to the max!
 

lifeafter41

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Bro 41yo. You have a valid point here. Sometime unknowingly or not I a more concerned about what others think of me and do things to fulfill them instead of myself. In work I am also behaving this way at times.
Meanwhile the balance amount is still in my bank and more leng this period. If I see something I like can buy without thinking too much .to be Frank I do not really spend alot other than eating. Travelling was fun to me during 20s to 30s. Somehow I feel tired to travel for holiday nowadays. Other than these the only object I like perhaps is to own a dream car. But that is way beyond my capacity to own it and not wise.

Dear chootchiew, do you forsee yourself settling down within the next 2 years?
As in, are you looking for companionship or a wifey with children?
 

Cerebral

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well. singapore branded bag usually sell quite expensive. wait till go europe trip then buy.

my wife bought one last 3 years. in singapore cost about 3000++, but she just bought high end 1000, then can get.
(LV bag)

I think several pages back, he mentioned that the wallet not being a wallet but closer to a wristlet or a clutch bag. I think hence the price. Because Chanel wallets only around $1.2 and not $3.2k. Same with Prada. Wallet only few hundreds
 

takashi

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9 pages already....
TS buy bag already or not?
Page 7, post #137, yesterday morning:
A very good morning to all samsters and samstees. I would like to update a short fr here. Firstly thanks for all your support in making me a more confident person when visiting the high class boutiques. Also need to thanks for the samsters who kan me becos without them kanning me I may not have thought of certain ethics, and playful some defensive role while doing the striker role.

Pardon me for not being able to gpgt like ah meng as I do not wish to be csied and also running into danger of being spotted by my target or her acquaintance.
As planned earlier this week, we went onsite to orchard area last night. As advised by a kind bro earlier, I wore proper for the occasion i.e. smart casual with upcollar polo, chinos slim fit flat front pant with shoe from timberland. Compared to my usual attire of a sinkie loser with bermuda and tshirt, I find myself look like a successful businessman that play golf as past times :biggrin:
We had simple dinner first near her place as the shopping was the priority yesterday. After the chop chop dinner, we took a cab down to orchard.
My heart was feeling a little excited and uneasy, mind was thinking about the proper language to use later, for the Dos and the Donts. Was rehearsing about the more complex sentence to use when is time to ask about the price. Before I realize we were already at orchard area.
Our first destination was the chanel at ion orchard. OMG I cannot believe my eyes. I could see a little crowd at the entrance of Chanel. I wonder wtf is happening. Was it a lelong going on, or Chanel is having a fine dinings inside. I had a quick scan of the crowd and omitted the lelong becos among the crowds were mostly sophiscated people i.e. totally different looks and posture as a typical sinkie loser. Whilst some of their dressing were pretty simple, they look sophiscated to me. I relook at myself and said to myself, is showtime....
We joined the queue being diverted by a well built , nicely dressed guard, that look more like a club bouncer. My mind was cursing , bloody hell we are shopping, and not having dinner or clubbing, wtf are we queuing for lol. But lan lan since everyone is queuing we need to wait for our turn. Anyway in turn, the crowd released my fear, becos my initial thought was that the shop will be empty kind, with only the 2 of us, and being served exclusively , which definitely will make the atmosphere more stiff. After a short wait of 5mins, we were being lead in, machiam like ordering table for 2 lol.
While inside, I realized it wasn't that crowded afterall, really no idea why they are doing crowd control outside ??? My first glance was to lookout for any gentlemen as a reference point hehe. I saw 2 to 3 foreigner gentlemen, I guess 1 is a indo Chinese, 1 angmoh tk and 1 probably a sinkie like me. Hosay lah I use the sinkie as a reference point without further thought. That sinkie guy was in very relax mood, browsing for items on his own, not sure which charbor is his..anyway I mind my own business now. I parted with my gal to have a overall visit and learnt that Chanel have even shoes, bloody hell siao bo wear chanel shoe, no logo who will know is bata shoe or chanel shoe. While browsing on my own I did not get disturbed by any sales staff, very free and easy. If happened to meet face 2 face with any, just a gentlemen smile to them, and they left me alone, totally no pressure.
After about 3mins, I had to join my gal to kickoff the pressuring part. We went to the wallet corner and the sales staff started to take out all the overpriced wallets. Till here I still have not opened my golden mouth LOL. As mentioned my a bro I expect some items to have price tab inside. While my gal was busy viewing, zipping unzipping the wallet, I took a secs chance to ply open 1 wallet, saw a tag, but nabei cb no price stated lah, just a high class tag nia. While doing all this nonsense action, my gal didn't know lah lol. I asked her how you find all these blah blah, among the wallet were some classic and some seasonal. She had eye on 1 of the seasonal. So I finally opened my golden mouth with the golden statement recommended by a bro - I asked... do you mind telling me the price of this, steady lah the statement was delivered clear and sound to the sales girl. She replied sir, is $3200.
I said "Ohh alright !"..nabei when starting the thread I forgot to ask about proper reply, not sure this "Oh alright " is deemed presentable ? Well item exceeded $200 from my budget, that's really alright to me anyway.
I then asked my gal how..u like it ? She was abit yes and no expression. Then I know she would like to view more options. Or maybe she found $3200 too costly and feel heart pain for me .FYI I did not state my budget to her, becos after rethink it is not a gentlemen idea to say this for giving her a gift.
I know she won't abuse me one lor. That's why I like her. A few bro said what I kena manipulated by pussy, all nonsense lah, I know her she know me.that is why we can click well.
We moved on to view other chanel items, then I know that we will be leaving this shop soon as she wanted to view at other luxurious boutiques.
At this point of time, I was feeling relieve, in that $3200 item she did not want, and also I had my first virgin experience in pretending to be a rich gentlemen lol.
I excuse myself from her for a short while while taking a quick puff outside the building. Our next stop was not LV but Prada.
This shop was very different from Chanel. It was much less shopper, only the 2 of us with 3 Richie thais I guess.
The salesman looks very normal sinkie type. No pretentious was required at all from both parties. We can even chat in mandarin and singlish...I like !
We went straight to wallet section this time, the salesman took out all the different design and colour of wallets, and even self offer us the price..very swee, I can forget totally about my fear of being a low life sinkie loser haha, ter lai chuan bu fei gongfu. It was just like a normal wallet purchase. I can even tell him jokingly pocket bo lui..after much selection, user acceptance test, my gal selected a $1500 wallet that meets all her requirements of a wallet. Limpe song2 kaw ION, flip out my credit card confidently, as my budget of $3k far exceeded the 1.5k. You see my gal don't anyhow abuse me one.

Very loh soh ..I shall end my feeling here. As I mentioned before, I give her this gift is not for pussy exchange hor. Not everyone everyday think of pussy fyi. And sorli to use the word "My gal" cos she is not mine yet, just use it in advance.
I hope our r/s will move 1 step closer from here...cheers !
 

NanoSpeed

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If chootchiew is worth his salt next will be buying condoms/contraceptive pills, ky, viagra

I suspect the MILF will reciprocate with this:

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