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At such unprecendented times most of us will be jumping on the opportunity of holding onto our jobs and not mind mulling it over just to make end meet.
But for a Facebook user who has taken to share her story and seeking advice on a Facebook page NUSWhispers as she wrote that she has a hardworking husband who has nothing in his mind but work thus making her take the route of cheating.
She has all, that any simple woman or person may ask for, a home, a responsible husband who works hard, but as what she shared, “I can’t do it anymore” as her husband is too overwhelmed with work to such an extend that he wouldn’t even have a proper erection during love making and will just go straight to work when he lost his libido halfway through the process.
It is understandable that every individual has their needs but is it right when one cheats?
Her story is as below:
“Hello my fellow whisperers. I’m genuinely concern about my marriage. I’m 30F and I have been married to my husband for a year. We dated for almost 10 years before being engaged. Both graduated from NUS. Everything post marriage is good, both sides of our families are stable. We have good jobs, a house, absolutely no financial worries at all. However, our sex life is shit. We used to have sex regularly in our early twenties when we were dating and everything was fine until he found a job and lost all his mojo. All he can think about is his work. On multiple occasions during sex, he lost his erection and nothing can be done about it after that. Most of the time after that happened he immediately went back to work. We haven’t had regular sex since 3 years before marriage. I thought marriage would change that but it only got worse. I mean, I do get stressed out from work too. But it doesn’t affect me sexually like it does for him. I have resorted to cheating as “I can’t do it anymore”, you know? I’m in a horny and thorny situation (lol) I’m quite lost at this point. I have talked to him about it. He just blames it on work. And I believe he genuinely is absorbed in work. It’s not a cause of him cheating on other women or being a Bruce Jenner. I do use toy on myself whenever I have the urge. But it can’t replace human contact. Any advice from the floor? Do I continue cheating? I love being married to him. This is the only downside to this marriage.
